The entire family made a decision about the time and place for the memorial service. My father was recovering from a hospitalization, so my brother went to see him at the recovery center. Mom’s death was anticipated. I suggest you have another family member call all the relatives. It is too hard for the immediate family to call and discuss it with every person the deceased knew. The immediate family confirmed the time and place of the memorial service with the church pastor. The time and place were printed in the obituary. Our Insider just went through the loss of his Mom. He walks you through every step as Executor and survivor. The Insider's Guide for Survivors Regular price: $19.95 Sale price: $9.95 FREE Starter Guide The Insider’s Guide to Your Wealth Reserve Regular price: $19.95 Sale price: $9.95 The Insider’s Guide to Retirement Spending Regular price: $19.95 Sale price: $9.95 Copyright © 2010 Insurance Advisors Network™, LLC